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Resettlement or immigration to the USA may have a major impact on your family. The changing family roles can be one of the hardest parts of adjusting to a new life. Understanding about family roles in the USA can make it easier to cope with the changes.

Resettlement or immigration to the USA may have a major impact on your family. The changing family roles can be one of the hardest parts of adjusting to a new life. Understanding about family roles in the USA can make it easier to cope with the changes.

Three generations of a resettled refugee family, photo copyright Moody College by Lisa Krantz, CC.
זקני הפליטים, by Lisa Krantz, Creative Commons
Three generations of a resettled refugee family, photo copyright Moody College by Lisa Krantz, CC.
Refugee Elders, by Lisa Krantz, Creative Commons

Gender roles

Gender roles

One of the biggest differences you may have to adapt to in the USA is different gender roles. בארה ב, נשים לעתים קרובות לעבוד מחוץ לבית. נשים וגברים לחלוק מטלות בית. Both women and men take care of the children. לפעמים, male refugees feel frustrated because they are not used to cleaning the house or cooking dinner. But in the USA, עוזר בבית ועם הילדים נתפסת כחלק חשוב של להיות גבר.

One of the biggest differences you may have to adapt to in the USA is different gender roles. In the USA, women often work outside of the house. Women and men share household chores. Both women and men take care of the children. Sometimes, male refugees feel frustrated because they are not used to cleaning the house or cooking dinner. But in the USA, helping out in the house and with the children is seen as an important part of being a man.

ניתן ללמוד עוד על women in the USA.

You can learn more about women in the USA.

ההורים

Parents

Parenting in the USA may be very different than in your home country. Refugee and immigrant children often adjust and adapt to life in the United States much faster than their parents. הם לעיתים קרובות ללמוד אנגלית מהר יותר מאשר את ההורים שלהם גם כן. This can be hard for you as parents and for your children, במיוחד מאז אתה תלוי הילדים שלך שיסייעו לך לעקוף, לתרגם לך.

Parenting in the USA may be very different than in your home country. Refugee and immigrant children often adjust and adapt to life in the United States much faster than their parents. They often learn English faster than their parents as well. This can be hard for you as parents and for your children, especially since you may depend on your children to help you get around and to translate for you.

Many Americans send their children to daycare centers. משמעות הדבר היא שצופים בהם על-ידי מישהו מחוץ לבית. עבור חלק מהפליטים, זהו מצב מאוד מוזר. . אולי תמיד קיבלת את ילדיכם בבית איתך, או אולי סבא וסבתא כדי לעזור לטפל בהם. בארה ב, many neighbors help each other share child car. If you live near other refugees and immigrants, חושב, לשאול אותם לחלוק טיפול בילדים.

Many Americans send their children to daycare centers. This means they are watched by someone outside of the home. For some refugees, this is a very strange situation. You may have always had your children at home with you or maybe you had grandparents to help take care of them. In the USA, many neighbors help each other share child car. If you live near other refugees and immigrants, think about asking them to share child care.

Newcomer parents sometimes have a hard time because their children’s behavior changes from how it was in their home country. אולי לא תאהבי חלק התנהגויות חדשות שלהם, and you will need to learn about new ways to parent in the USA. ואני עדיין, although it may be hard, you will still be able to pass on parts of your culture to your children while also helping them succeed in the USA.

Newcomer parents sometimes have a hard time because their children’s behavior changes from how it was in their home country. You might not like some of their new behaviors, and you will need to learn about new ways to parent in the USA. And yet, although it may be hard, you will still be able to pass on parts of your culture to your children while also helping them succeed in the USA.

Child abuse

Child abuse

Children in America have laws to protect them, which means it is against the law to abuse your children. החוק הפדרלי מגדיר משהו שגורמת לפגיעה קשה לילדים שלך או שמה אותם בסכנה התעללות. התעללות פיזית אומר משהו. זו לא הייתה תאונה, יכול נעות בין חבורה קטנה פגיעה רצינית כמו עצם שבורה. פציעות ילדים הן התעללות גם אם ההורה לא התכוון לפגוע הילד. משמעת גופנית, כגון הכאת ילד בתחתית, מותר אבל לא מומלץ.

Children in America have laws to protect them, which means it is against the law to abuse your children. Federal Law defines abuse as anything that causes serious harm to your children or puts them in danger. Physical abuse means anything that was not an accident and can range from a small bruise to a serious injury like a broken bone. Injuries to children are abuse even if the parent did not mean to hurt the child. Physical discipline, such as spanking a child on the bottom, is allowed but not recommended.

גם אסור להתעלל רגשית של הילד שלך. התעללות רגשית פירושו משהו יכול למנוע מילד מלפתח באופן מלא. התעללות רגשית יכולה לכלול ביקורת מתמדת, איומים, או דחייה, כמו גם מניעת אהבה, תמיכה, או הדרכה.

You are also not allowed to emotionally abuse your child. Emotional abuse means something that can prevent a child from fully developing. Emotional abuse can include constant criticism, threats, or rejection, as well as withholding love, support, or guidance.

Child neglect

Child neglect

כלומר הזנחה לילד ההורה אינה מספקת לצרכים הבסיסיים של הילדים שלהם. בארה ב, you are not allowed to leave young children at home alone. You are also not allowed to leave young children alone away from home, גם אם הם בעגלה, במגרש המשחקים, in a shop, office, library, or car. ילדים צעירים חייבים להיות מבוקרים Familyבכל עת.

Child neglect means that a parent does not provide for their children’s basic needs. In the USA, you are not allowed to leave young children at home alone. You are also not allowed to leave young children alone away from home, even if they are in a stroller, on a playground, in a shop, office, library, or car. Young children must be supervised Familyat all times.

נטישה זו מוגדרת כעת במדינות רבות כסוג של הזנחה. באופן כללי, a child is considered abandoned if a child does not know where his parent is or if the child has been left alone and has been injured.

Abandonment is now defined in many states as a form of neglect. In general, a child is considered abandoned if a child does not know where his parent is or if the child has been left alone and has been injured.

This information is from the Children’s Bureau. You can read more about child abuse and neglect.

This information is from the Children’s Bureau. You can read more about child abuse and neglect.

סבא וסבתא

Grandparents

Many older newcomers have a hard time adjusting to life in theUSA. In many countries around the world, זקני מטופלים עם הרבה כבוד. ילדים שמקשיבים להם. הם נראים כמו מקורות החוכמה בקהילות שלהם.

Many older newcomers have a hard time adjusting to life in theUSA. In many countries around the world, elders are treated with a lot of respect. Children listen to them. They are seen as sources of wisdom in their communities.

בארה ב, אנשים רבים מעריכים נוער מעל גיל. רוב הידע שיש פליטים אלדר הוא לא מועיל ככל שזה במדינתם. לדוגמה, an older refugee may know a lot about farming or tending to cows but in America, המשפחה שלו יפעלו בבנייני משרדים.

In the USA, many people value youth over age. A lot of the knowledge that elder refugees have is not as useful as it was in their home country. For example, an older refugee may know a lot about farming or tending to cows but in America, his family may work in office buildings.

לפעמים, פליטים מבוגרים מתחילים להרגיש חסר תועלת. But sharing your culture and keeping your family tied to your home country is a very important job for you. גם, try to remember that even though children may act differently in their new home, הם עדיין יכול לאהוב אותך.

Sometimes, older refugees start to feel useless. But sharing your culture and keeping your family tied to your home country is a very important job for you. Also, try to remember that even though children may act differently in their new home, they still can love you.

ישנם גם ארגונים ממש טוב מסוימים ברחבי הארץ התומכים פליטים בוגרים. אתה יכול find information for elders and how to find a senior center.

There are also some really good organizations around the country that support older refuges. You can find information for elders and how to find a senior center.

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