Raising children and parenting laws in the United States

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Learn about parenting laws in the United States. Learn about how Americans raise their children. Read li ser cihê ku ji bo alîkariyê bi daycare. Find out çi bikim eger hûn bi fikar dikin ku zarokên xwe bi guhertina an di rîskê de.

Learn about parenting laws in the United States. Learn about how Americans raise their children. Read about where to find help with daycare. Find out what to do if you are worried that your children are changing or at risk.

qanûnên malbatperestî li Dewletên Yekbûyî yên Amerîkayê

parenting laws in the United States

gelek qanûnên malbatperestî, li Dewletên Yekbûyî yên Amerîkayê hene. Ew qaîdeyên ji bo parastina zarokan û ew ji mafên wan bide in.

There are many parenting laws in the United States of America. They are rules to protect children and give them rights.

Ez dikarim zarokên xwe re li mala an mala min bê min berde?

Can I leave my children at my house or apartment without me?

  • Li DYA, zarokên biçûk û yên ciwan ne dikare li malê bêyî ku adult hiştin. Li welatên herî, kids ser 12 years old dikarin lênêrîna ji bira an xwişkên xwe bigirin.
  • Eger tu zarokê xwe derkevin, li malê, yan jî daîreya xwe de bi tena serê, tu nav tengahiyê de bi hikûmeta get.
  • Eger tu kar û zarokên ciwan, you will need to pay for your children to go to daycare or have a babysitter. Hikûmeta vêxe daycares bi cîh bikin ku bi lênêrîna baş ji kids te.
  • Eger tu bes pereyê ji bo p'erên an daycare bidin, ne xwedî, hûn bikarin "bazirganî" bi malbateke din. Hûn dikarin zarokên xwe li ser çend rojan watch û malbata din jî dikarin zarokên xwe rojeke din watch. Hûn bikarin bibînin dê yan jî bavê di civakê de xwe bi watch zarokên xwe.
  • Di bernameya neteweyî HeadStart ku ji bo lênêrîna zarokan û pre-dibistana perwerdeya ji bo malbatên-dahat kêm.
  • In the USA, young children and babies cannot be left at the house without an adult. In most states, kids over 12 years old can take care of their younger brothers or sisters.
  • If you leave your child at your house or apartment alone, you can get into trouble with the government.
  • If you work and have young children, you will need to pay for your children to go to daycare or have a babysitter. The government checks daycares to make sure they are taking good care of your kids.
  • If you do not have enough money to pay for a babysitter or daycare, you might be able to “trade” with another family. You could watch their children on some days and the other family can watch your children another day. You might be able to find a mother or father in your community to watch your children.
  • The national program HeadStart that offers childcare and pre-school education to low-income families.

Ez dikarim xist kids min gava ku ew xirab hereket?

Can I hit my kids when they behave badly?

Li Dewletên Yekbûyî, tu zarokên xist ne. Eger te xist zarokên xwe, hikûmeta dikarin zarokên we ji we bigirin. Heke zarokên we bi rêzikên li jêr ne, pêwîstîya te bi fêrbûna riyên din ji wan re hîn bibin baş.

In the United States, you can not hit children. If you hit your children, the government can take your children away from you. If your children are not following rules, you need to learn other ways to teach them to be good.

Dema ku dê û bav an kesên din hit an ziyanê a zarok, ku navê îstismara zarokan. Li DYA in qanûnên parastina zarokan ji bo rawestandina gel zarokên biêşînin hene. Hîn li ser îstismara zarokan, parastina zarokan, û ji dê û bavê qaîdeyên divê li pey.

When parents or others hit or harm a child, it is called child abuse. In the USA there are child protection laws to stop people hurting children. Learn about child abuse, child protection, and the rules parents must follow.

Ez çi dikarim bikim, eger kids min bi tevdigere Amerîkî?

What can I do if my kids are acting very American?

  • Dibe ku hun hest bi xemgînî ji ber ku zarokên we dibe pir Amerîkî. Ev e, gelek caran bi hêsanî for kids bo diyarkirina ji çanda Amerîkî ji ber ku ew hêsan e, ji bo wan ji bo fêrbûna English. Lê ji bîr nekin ku hûn dixwazin zarokên xwe bi ser keve, li Emerîka û heta eger hûn hest bi xemgînî, qenc e ku ji bo wan eyar ji bo jiyana li Amerîkayê.
  • Li Dewletên Yekbûyî, gelek mamoste û dê û zarok re dibêjim, gava ku ew çi karekî baş. Ger tu kids te re dibêjim, hûn bi wan qayîl bibin, ev dê alîkariya te têkiliyeke baş bi kids te. Gelek kids penaberan û koçberan, dibêjin, ku ew dixwazin û bavên wan ji wan re spas bikin, eger ew tiştekî baş.
  • Talk to kids xot derbareyi welatê xwe. Share pictures û ji wan re li ser tiştên favorite te ji welatê te re dibêjim,.
  • Find yek tişt û kids xwe hem bi rastî jî wek li ser Amerîka. Do ku çalakiyên bi hev re. Bo nimûne, dibe tu hemû wek baseball. Go to games baseball bi hev re bi zarokên xwe.
  • You might feel sad because your children are becoming very American. It is often easy for kids to adjust to American culture because it is easy for them to learn English. But remember that you want your children to succeed in America and even if you feel sad, it is good for them to adjust to life in America.
  • In the United States, many parents and teachers tell children when they do a good job. If you can tell your kids you are pleased with them, this will help you have a good relationship with your kids. Many refugee and immigrant kids say they wish their parents would praise them if they do something good.
  • Talk to your kids about your home country. Share pictures and tell them about your favorite things from your country.
  • Find one thing you and your kids both really like about America. Do that activity together. For example, you might all like baseball. Go to baseball games together with your children.

Ez dikarim çawa zarokên xwe bi zimanê xwe hîn?

How can I teach my children our language?

  • Hûn dikarin alîkarîya kids te hîn English û zimanê xwe. kids te wê English zûtir fêr bibin, eger ew jî bigirin dipeyivî û fêrbûna zimanê xwe!
  • Ku zarokên te li malê ne, bila ew di her du zimanan dipeyivin?.
  • wan Ask ji bo xwendina pirtûkên bi zimanê xwe di. Fîlman temaşe û guhdariya mûzîkê li zimanê xwe.
  • You can help your kids learn English and your language. Your kids will learn English faster if they also keep speaking and learning your language!
  • When your kids are at home, let them speak in both languages.
  • Ask them to read books in your language. Watch movies and listen to music in your language.

Ez kur an keça min bi kar narkotîk an alkolê ez ditirsim.

I am worried my son or daughter is using drugs or alcohol.

  • Eger tu bi kur an keça xwe nîgeran e bikaranîna alkolê, tu bi doktorê xwe re an jî ji bo mamosteyê xwe re biaxivin. Li Dewletên Yekbûyî, mamoste û malbatên alîkarî. Ev pir normal bi axivin ji bo mamosteyan e.
  • Dibe ku tu hest û şermokî. Tu ne rêzkirina kombersê dixwazin ku gel bizanibe ku zarokê we ku pirsgirêk. Lê eger tu pirsgirêk veşêrin, ew xerabtir bibe.
  • If you are worried your son or daughter is using alcohol, you can talk to your doctor or to their teacher. In the United States, teachers help families. It is very normal to talk to teachers.
  • You may feel embarrassed. You might not want people to know your child is having a problem. But if you hide the problem, it will get worse.

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