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Resettlement or immigration to the USA may have a major impact on your family. The changing family roles can be one of the hardest parts of adjusting to a new life. Understanding about family roles in the USA can make it easier to cope with the changes.

Resettlement or immigration to the USA may have a major impact on your family. The changing family roles can be one of the hardest parts of adjusting to a new life. Understanding about family roles in the USA can make it easier to cope with the changes.

Three generations of a resettled refugee family, photo copyright Moody College by Lisa Krantz, CC.
Refugee Guurtida, by Lisa Krantz, Creative Commons
Three generations of a resettled refugee family, photo copyright Moody College by Lisa Krantz, CC.
Refugee Elders, by Lisa Krantz, Creative Commons

doorarka Gender

Gender roles

One of the biggest differences you may have to adapt to in the USA is different gender roles. In USA, haweenka inta badan ka shaqeeyaan meel ka baxsan guriga. Dumarka iyo ragga wadaagaan hawsha guriga. Both women and men take care of the children. Mararka qaarkood, male refugees feel frustrated because they are not used to cleaning the house or cooking dinner. But in the USA, ka caawinaya in guriga iyo carruurta la socotaba waxaa loo arkaa qayb muhiim ah oo adigoo nin ah.

One of the biggest differences you may have to adapt to in the USA is different gender roles. In the USA, women often work outside of the house. Women and men share household chores. Both women and men take care of the children. Sometimes, male refugees feel frustrated because they are not used to cleaning the house or cooking dinner. But in the USA, helping out in the house and with the children is seen as an important part of being a man.

Waxaad badan oo ku saabsan baran kartaa women in the USA.

You can learn more about women in the USA.

Waalidiinta

Parents

Parenting in the USA may be very different than in your home country. Refugee and immigrant children often adjust and adapt to life in the United States much faster than their parents. Waxay inta badan Ingiriisi bartaan si ka dhaqso badan waalidiintooda iyo weliba. Tani waxay noqon kartaa mid adag oo aad loogu talagalay waalidiinta sida iyo carruurtiinna,, gaar ahaan tan iyo markii aad ku xidhnaan karaa caruurta si ay u caawiyaan kugu xeerani oo kuu tarjuma.

Parenting in the USA may be very different than in your home country. Refugee and immigrant children often adjust and adapt to life in the United States much faster than their parents. They often learn English faster than their parents as well. This can be hard for you as parents and for your children, especially since you may depend on your children to help you get around and to translate for you.

Dad badan oo Maraykan carruurtooda xarumaha dharaartii lagu soo diri. Taas macnaheedu waxa ay daawaday qof ka baxsan guriga. Waayo, qaar ka mid ah qaxootiga, tani waa xaalad aad u la yaab leh. ayaa laga yaabaa in aad had iyo jeer ay carruur aad guriga kula ama waxaa laga yaabaa in aad adigu ayeeyo si ay u caawiyaan is ogow iyaga ka mid ah. In USA, many neighbors help each other share child car. If you live near other refugees and immigrants, ka fikir iyaga weydiiya inay la wadaagaan daryeelka ilmaha.

Many Americans send their children to daycare centers. This means they are watched by someone outside of the home. For some refugees, this is a very strange situation. You may have always had your children at home with you or maybe you had grandparents to help take care of them. In the USA, many neighbors help each other share child car. If you live near other refugees and immigrants, think about asking them to share child care.

Newcomer parents sometimes have a hard time because their children’s behavior changes from how it was in their home country. Waxaad ma jeclaan laga yaabaa in qaar ka mid ah dabeecadaha cusub, and you will need to learn about new ways to parent in the USA. Oo weliba, inkastoo laga yaabo adag, you will still be able to pass on parts of your culture to your children while also helping them succeed in the USA.

Newcomer parents sometimes have a hard time because their children’s behavior changes from how it was in their home country. You might not like some of their new behaviors, and you will need to learn about new ways to parent in the USA. And yet, although it may be hard, you will still be able to pass on parts of your culture to your children while also helping them succeed in the USA.

Child abuse

Child abuse

Carruurta America waxay leeyihiin shuruuc si ay u ilaaliyaan, taas oo macnaheedu yahay waa sharciga ku xadgudbaan carruurta aad. Sharciga Federaalka qeexayaa xadgudubka sida wax ku keenaysaa dhaawac halis carruurtaada ama ka dhigeysa in khatar. Xadgudubka jirka ka dhigan tahay wax aan shil iyo dhaxayn karo burburin yar oo dhaawac halis ah sida laf jabtay. Dhaawacyada in carruurtu waa xadgudub xataa haddii waalidku ma ka dhigan tahay in ay dhaawici ilmaha. anshaxa jidheed, sida xiiirka ilmo ayaa salka ku jira, waxaa loo ogol yahay laakiin laguma talinayo.

Children in America have laws to protect them, which means it is against the law to abuse your children. Federal Law defines abuse as anything that causes serious harm to your children or puts them in danger. Physical abuse means anything that was not an accident and can range from a small bruise to a serious injury like a broken bone. Injuries to children are abuse even if the parent did not mean to hurt the child. Physical discipline, such as spanking a child on the bottom, is allowed but not recommended.

ayaa sidoo kale looma ogola in aad dareen dhiba ilmahaaga. Xadgudubka niyadda ka dhigan tahay wax ka hortagi kara ilmaha ka buuxda soo koraya. Xadgudubka niyadda ka mid noqon kara dhaleeceyn joogta ah, hanjabaad, ama diidmada, iyo sidoo kale heyn jacayl, taageero, ama hanuun.

You are also not allowed to emotionally abuse your child. Emotional abuse means something that can prevent a child from fully developing. Emotional abuse can include constant criticism, threats, or rejection, as well as withholding love, support, or guidance.

Child neglect

Child neglect

dayaca caruurta ka dhigan tahay in uusan waalidka siiyaan ma baahida aasaasiga ah ee ay carruurta. In USA, you are not allowed to leave young children at home alone. You are also not allowed to leave young children alone away from home, xataa haddii ay ku jiraan riixo a, on daaradda a, dukaanka a, xafiiska, maktabadda, ama baabuur. Carruurta yar yar waa in la kormeero Familymar walba.

Child neglect means that a parent does not provide for their children’s basic needs. In the USA, you are not allowed to leave young children at home alone. You are also not allowed to leave young children alone away from home, even if they are in a stroller, on a playground, in a shop, office, library, or car. Young children must be supervised Familyat all times.

Baxsi waxa loo qeexay imminka nooc ka mid ah dayaca gobolada badan. Guud, a child is considered abandoned if a child does not know where his parent is or if the child has been left alone and has been injured.

Abandonment is now defined in many states as a form of neglect. In general, a child is considered abandoned if a child does not know where his parent is or if the child has been left alone and has been injured.

This information is from the Children’s Bureau. Waxaad badan oo ku saabsan ka akhriyi kartaa child abuse and neglect.

This information is from the Children’s Bureau. You can read more about child abuse and neglect.

Grandparents

Grandparents

Many older newcomers have a hard time adjusting to life in theUSA. In wadamo badan oo caalamka ah, odayaasha waxaa lagu daaweeyaa ixtiraam badan. Caruurta uu dhegaysan iyagii. Waxaa loo arkaa in uu yahay ilaha xigmad ah bulshooyinkooda.

Many older newcomers have a hard time adjusting to life in theUSA. In many countries around the world, elders are treated with a lot of respect. Children listen to them. They are seen as sources of wisdom in their communities.

In USA, dad badan oo qiimo leh dhallinyarada da'doodu ka. Dad badan oo aqoon in qaxootiga oday leeyihiin ma aha sida mid waxtar leh maadaama ay ahayd in dalkooda. Tusaale ahaan, an older refugee may know a lot about farming or tending to cows but in America, qoyskiisa dhismayaasha xafiiska shaqeeyaan laga yaabaa in.

In the USA, many people value youth over age. A lot of the knowledge that elder refugees have is not as useful as it was in their home country. For example, an older refugee may know a lot about farming or tending to cows but in America, his family may work in office buildings.

Mararka qaarkood, oo waawayn oo qaxooti bilaabaan inay dareemaan aan waxtar lahayn. But sharing your culture and keeping your family tied to your home country is a very important job for you. Sidoo kale, isku day in la xusuusto in kastoo karta in ay carruurtu u dhaqmaan in ay guriga cusub ee ka duwan, waxay weli aad u jeclaan karaa.

Sometimes, older refugees start to feel useless. But sharing your culture and keeping your family tied to your home country is a very important job for you. Also, try to remember that even though children may act differently in their new home, they still can love you.

Waxa kale oo jira qaar ka mid ah ururada fiican oo wadanka ku taageera goobo ka weyn. Waad awoodaa find information for elders and how to find a senior center.

There are also some really good organizations around the country that support older refuges. You can find information for elders and how to find a senior center.

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